(un)tangled thoughts

 A 2 minute rundown.  Life is super busy right now and this is really not by surprise. I knew from my previous two years that summer is when things are seemingly completely falling apart. I'm doing better this year over all though.  My blogs of course have not been timely or consistent anymore but again compared to my prior self it's still been going way better as long as I don't get to hung up on my content, I guess. For the next while I will be In and Out of classes more, due to my festival season starting and eventually welcoming my Dad after 11 years back to Canada for an extended visit. Balancing it all is going to be my motto for the next few month but who am I kidding more likely all the way to the end of the year. And as much as I love summer just writing this out, I realize how important the seasons are for me, because the first three month of every calendar year are apparently the only time life slows down a bit and I'm somewhat on top of things.  In any ca...

I'm back from my short trip to Germany. I thought these few days away wouldn't have that much of an impact on my routines and momentum, not true! Life keeps happening and has thrown all kinds of challenges at me these last few weeks and right now I really struggle keeping up with what I put on my plate. I have no idea how everything seemed still possible two weeks ago and now I'm ready to cut, cancel and quit all kinds of things. I know these moments of overwhelm are not the time to make decisions so 'breathing through it' it is for now. I'm also clueless about what to write a blog about but the fact that I have now let go of my consistency of the first three month is just another stress factor and I can feel the mind set of "what ever" creeping in. So this is all I got for now just to say "I'm still here!" My numbers have also plummeted not just a little bit and I'm now also officially behind on my 50.000s.  On the bright side I want...

I was hoping to come up with something for this week‘s blog. I know there are so many things I could dig into, such as team form, fight choreography, board breaking, and all kinds of topics in preparation for the tiger challenge! But I just don’t have the bandwidth! I realize I have been lacking on adding my numbers at the end of my blogs. Mostly because my numbers are on an app on my phone and I write my blogs on the computer. I’m usually just trying to get the blog out and moving on to the next task and it’s always this chore at the end that takes seemingly forever, and often I’m just happy I wrote a blog! So this week its just about  my numbers. Here they are!

I can feel anxiety creeping in as my time gets ripped into patches and I have to decide what to designate these patches of time to. Now, sticking to my Kung Fu routine is getting harder. I feel disappointment in my swindling numbers and that is mostly because my pride in these numbers was so great for the first two month. My list of tasks that I decided are priorities now is growing. I hate saying NO and love saying Yes and I'm only starting to embrace the fact that these two belong together, if I like it or not. I started listening to "The Subtle Art of not giving a F..." by Mark Menson and he stated in his book that when we make decisions to do something, we ultimately choose the problems we will be dealing with to. We tend to make decisions based on romantic ideas, which we anticipate to become true once we have arrived but that "destination" in reality is just another day in your life with new decisions to be made and other issues to be solved. For example, ...

Another period of struggling to keep my routine! My numbers are down again this week, but on the other side, I celebrate that I have done some Kung Fu each day since we started the year of the snake, no exception, even when I didn't feel right. Yesterday was the first Monday I didn't get a blog out! No super big deal as I'm sitting now to get one out, but again it shows me the struggle that lies ahead.  Another issue right now is becoming friends with my weapon. I find myself practicing everything but my braid form. It's not that I don't like swinging it or even wanting to become better, but I struggle finding my intent. Our exercise recently, when we were introducing a teammate to our weapon form and talking them through each move, highlighted that even more. I was so happy to have found a few techniques I was able to string together into a beta version, but now I really wonder what I'm doing. When I was trying to explain the intent of each move, I realized tha...

 Last week Wednesday I earned my brown belt. That day had been anticipated for a while as I had almost a month to prepare and practice for it. I am of course super happy and proud also because Leon and I got to experience this together but I have to say I did not expect this shift in my attitude. It felt very different getting to the brown belt than to any other belt level I earned in the past and interestingly this didn't really strike me until a couple of weeks ago. All of a sudden I remembered my beginnings and how I looked up and admired many of our teammates who were then where I am now. The thing is when I think back, the brown belt level and the skills that go along with that seemed so close to those of a black belt after all it is just a shade away. When I look at myself now and specifically when I watch videos of my forms and think of me attempting breaking boards or even sparring, I can't help but feel somewhat underserved of this rank. Not undeserved maybe in my effo...