Mending relationships...

The other day when the self-reporting system was introduced and I entered my numbers I stumbled over the "mendning a relationship" requirement. I had pushed that one to the side for a bit, although I will say I do spend regularly time pondering about such things. I like this requirement, it suits my personality as I am such a peace-loving person but sometimes I wonder if it's not also the people-pleaser in me. And that is where I spin around in circles again. Am I trying to figure out how to mend relationships because I have to fulfill a requirement and it is the right thing to do or am I following a pattern of seeking peace and approval. When I think about this, the first thing that usually comes to mind is my relationship with my mother which for most people is one of the most important ones in their lives. Because of the significance of this particular bond, it has puzzled me my whole life why my relationship with her is and always has been so incredibly difficult. ...